Moving with Kids? Here’s How to Make It Fun (and Less Stressful)

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Let’s be real—moving is already a big deal, and when you throw kids into the mix? It can feel like juggling boxes, emotions, and snacks all at once. I’ve helped many families move around Queens—from Astoria to Jackson Heights, from Sunnyside to Woodside—and I can tell you this: it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.

In fact, with a few smart strategies (and a little creativity), moving with kids can actually be a fun, bonding experience for the whole family.

Here’s what I’ve learned over the years helping families settle into their new homes—and how you can make your move in Queens smoother and more enjoyable for your little ones.

1. Talk About the Move Early

Kids don’t like surprises when it comes to big changes.
 So start the conversation early.

Here’s how to ease them in:

  • Keep it positive: Talk about what’s exciting about the new place—maybe it’s closer to a park, a favorite pizza spot, or Grandma.

  • Let them ask questions—even silly ones ("Will my toys come too?")—it helps them feel heard.

  • Make them part of the plan: Let them pack a few boxes or help decorate their future room with ideas.

In neighborhoods in Queens, there are great family spots you can bring up—nearby playgrounds, libraries, or after-school programs.

2. Visit the New Neighborhood Together

If you're moving from one part of Queens to another, take a little family field trip.

Let them explore the new area—walk around the block, grab ice cream nearby, or play at the local park.
 This turns an unfamiliar place into an adventure.

Some great kid-friendly spots in Queens:

  • Travers Park in Jackson Heights

  • Astoria Park’s playground and pool

  • Lou Lodati Park in Sunnyside (bonus: there’s a dog run!)

Familiarity helps reduce those first-day jitters.

3. Keep Routines As Normal As Possible

During a move, everything’s in flux. But if dinner time, bedtime, or story time stays the same, kids feel safe and grounded.

A few simple ways to maintain routine:

  • Pack essentials in a special “first night” box with favorite toys, books, and snacks

  • Stick to regular mealtimes, even if it’s takeout on the floor (hey, pizza nights make great memories!)

  • Unpack their room first—it gives them a sense of home right away

I always say, “home isn’t just a place—it’s a feeling.” Creating that feeling quickly can make all the difference.

4. Turn It Into a Game

Kids love a little fun—even during something like packing.

Try these ideas:

  • “Box decorating” contests with stickers or markers

  • A scavenger hunt for things to pack

  • Letting them be the “official labeler” of boxes

I’ve seen families turn unpacking into a mini treasure hunt for their kids.

5. Give It Time—and Patience

Sometimes, kids don’t warm up to change right away. That’s okay.
 Keep checking in with them. Create new traditions in your new space—a walk around the block after dinner, or weekend bagel runs (you can’t go wrong with bagels in Queens, trust me).

You’ll be surprised how quickly kids settle into their new routine—and start calling it “home.”

A New Chapter for the Family

I’ve seen families make beautiful transitions all over Queens—and one thing I’ve learned? The most important part is keeping your family connected through it all.

Moving with kids doesn’t have to be stressful or chaotic. In fact, it can be a chance to bond, create new memories, and get excited about this next chapter together.

Ready to make your move a smooth and exciting experience for your family? Let’s chat about how we can find the perfect home in Queens that helps you create those lasting memories. 

I'm here to guide you every step of the way!